August 5, 2010
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Paul_Partisan: EXPOSED
Before you start telling me to move on or let it go, don’t worry. After next week, I’m out of here. But before I leave, I need to expose the biggest troll there is. I believe all of you fellow Xangans deserve the truth.
I recently had a conversation with Paul_Partisan telling him I wouldn’t mention him again if he did the same, but you know what? Forget it, and the way he talked to me? I’ve taken enough low blows from the guy and he needs to reap what he sows.
Immediately following my last entry (I’ve Had It, Xanga), Paul_Partisan admitted to attacking me back in June under another alias as obama_on_x. In it (DearRicky Called me a Nigger), he publicly accused me of calling him a “nigger” with falsely created evidence in a blog that made it to the front page. Funny, how he suddenly got on my back during the time when the drama surrounding me was non-existent, when his popularity was dwindling.
He writes on the first comment page: “Fact is: I used Obama_on_X.. quite a few people knew it was me, though there was something else doing those things... it was amusing. And I have since apologized to you and others. And Ricky: Lets not even go there. I got popular fucking over many people before you. If you want to drag my name into the muck, lets at least be honest with your readers.”
Paul_Partisan in his attempt to gain popularity fucks over many people, and not just me. He also creates different fake user accounts to do it. Pathetic much? He also goes under the aliase of Jacques_Ducko when the both of them call me “Rickens”, as well as Sausage Heaven, which was recently deleted after he got found out.
While he claimed to have apologized to me, I never received an apology from him, and even if he did, the damage was already done. I lost numerous readers because of his lie. What Paul_Partisan doesn’t understand is that popularity comes with a responsibility to remain truthful because it has the power to influence someone’s reputation (or through recommending). Not all are going to see the damage control entry afterwards, and yet now he’s taking the high road?
After the aforementioned comment, he wrote me a private message. You can read the entire conversation here: LINK
As you can see in his desperate attempt to keep me quiet, he can’t take the repercussions for the bullshit he dishes out. While his insecurities amuse me, it’s unfortunate that he takes the Internet so seriously. He actually thinks I’m afraid of his threats, some online stranger.
Paul_Partisan: “I don’t care if my friends are right or wrong I will tear you apart by the jugular.”
This is what makes us different. I value integrity, and if one of my friends is wrong, I wouldn’t hesitate in rebuking them. I don’t mindlessly attack people without a good reason. In fact, despite his ongoing attacks on my physical disability, the only time I really retaliated was when he called me a little yellow nigger. He doesn’t care that his own sister is disabled herself.
Here’s a list of blogs that Paul_Partisan has written to bash me (the guy is obsessive): LINK
And you can see this childishness even more in another conversation between him and I (Just shut up and Blog): “No, you moron. You think you’re better than people. Or even more smart. Funny thing is Ricky... You’re usually below me on Top Blogs. You annoy people so much they quit commenting you. You timestamp a blog 6 times in 10hrs. And you still can’t achieve as much as I do. Why would I be bothered by you? The only thing you are capable of Ricky is failure.”
Unlike Paul_Partisan, my life doesn’t revolve around being on Top Blogs. This is why he turned on me out of nowhere. He claims that I attacked one of his friends, but yet never mentioned it to me. He only started attacking me when I wrote against the theory of evolution back in December of last year. Who actually has the time to create false identities just to bash people and get popular if they had a life?
So this is goodbye Xanga, because I came to have fun and share my writings. I wouldn’t be here if I didn’t want people to read. I came here to open up discussions with interesting and controversial topics. While I don’t mind the bashing, what I can’t take are trolls like Paul_Partisan who would do anything, right or wrong, to become top. I might be an asshole sometimes, but at least I don’t create lies to run someone down for selfish purposes.
What Paul_Partisan did to me could happen to anyone who becomes popular, and I thought you should know this, fellow Xangans. Is this what you support? I’m not going to call him names or attack his person. You can be the judges of his actions.
Thanks to each and every one of my friends and subscribers for supporting me all this time, especially the women who didn’t throw up to my barf-bag romantic stories. Ha! Who knows what the future might bring… but one more week of DearRicky come Monday. I’ll be sure to cover everything. Good riddance, right?
If you’re against this type of bullshit in creating false identities to bash people and making up lies about them just to get popular, please send a rec to your friends and subscribers.
Comments (210)
I thought you said VaneDave was obama_on_X...
@stephened - Paul just admitted to it.
wher i dont support bashing eachother, im not gonna rec this post but only because it will promote more xanga drama
Don't go, Ricky. Don't do it. Don't bend over.
Fuck Paul. Fuck anyone who tells you that you aren't allowed to express your opinion. Freedom of speech is a right we're born with, whatever country or creed we live in or ascribe to.
It doesn't matter who you are or what you believe. Say what you want to say and anyone who wants to stop you can piss up a rope. I don't agree with certain things on your blog, but I will never stop believing that you have a right to say those things and express your opinion about them.
Hope you change your mind.
I must've overlooked the poo joke this time. Are you really leaving us?
I like you Ricky. I just want you to know.
Ricky! Don't leave Xanga. Don't let those guys win. If anything you can start a new Xanga and sent the url to your fav Xangans...
I hate user tags...
I can't believe you've finally had enough! I feel like you've endured much worse shit than this on here!
but hey, I guess I have to give you credit because I probably would have been out a LONG time ago reading the shit you go through with people.
Ricky, don't leave! Why should this jerk or anyone else have the joy of running you off? You have more supporters than haters and it's sad to see you go, especially under these circumstances.
I think Paul is a good guy, you guys just don't get along. The bashing, the bantering, the insults, the threats...they're all because of old drama that should have been let go.
Also...
Ricky, I wish you would come back. I miss the sweet and serious you. Not the I'm-gonna-call-out-all-this-drama-and-raise-hell you. I miss the Ricky that I read back when I first really started Xanga. No one always gets along, you need to just let things go sometimes and not always get involved (or start!!!) the drama every time it raises it's annoying and evil little head.
Care-o-meter.
Low -|----------------------- High
Are you really leaving?
We should all start a fund to put camel flees into Paul's undergarments. This should be fun.
mr ricky ur not leaving if we have to chain u to the internet
You have the right to be here like the rest of us. You don't have to leave. Just ignore the nonsense and move on. Don't go because of crap from someone else. I don't have anything against Paul, so I am not gonna bash on someone I barely know, but if you could just act as if he didn't exist then you'd be ok. I do that with certain people on here. I wouldn't leave over anyone. Take it easy!
It's been good reading.... when you're not in the middle of things.
I don't think you should stop using xanga because a few people dislike you. You have plenty of other readers..all of this drama is unnecessary, it's over the internet, what is it really doing? If you feel like you have to stop using the site because of all this, than sorry to see you go, but don't let people and their drama push you away <3
wowzers, dearest ricky boy, arent you like one of the top heads? the big honchos? lol ive gotten blogs where people dont like me ( well ok, so ive gotten one lolol not a million like paul ) but who cares? lol i usually just ignore them. aw well lol ignorance really is bliss hahahahahaha
anyway, if your outta here, then adios wey. hasta luego, buenos dias~~~~
What you really need to do is just blog about things that interest YOU. Evolution/creation, life, whatever. Don't give so much attention to this kind of BS, just laugh it off. Don't let them chase you away. This place is just as much yours as theirs. It's free to all.
don't leave!!!
Please don't leave...
Fuck off Ricky. Paul is over it. You get over it now. That was long ago, and you acting like a jerk by writing this post is completey childish. Leave the guy alone.
He used his SausageHeaven site to write repeated hateful lies about me and others. I guess he didn't want people to know SausageHeaven was him because within a couple hours of me writing this post
http://itswhateyeknow.xanga.com/730674517/item/
he deleted that entire site.
He's immature and disturbed.
(Someone told me today that before I started using Xanga, Paul had sent several Xanga women a naked picture of himself with an erection. One of the girls was disgusted and gave it to a guy named Yosho who posted it publically. Ha! Like I said, immature and disturbed.)
leaving means you're letting him win... keep doing what you're doing before the drama started... write good blogs. obviously, people here support you and enjoy your writing.
@imasilentheart - What he did to me was less than 2 weeks ago.
Aww, I've really enjoyed reading your blog, Ricky.
DON'T GO!! ='(
@ItsWhatEyeKnow - He deleted that site because he is over the drama and has decided to act the mature person by not getting involved in that kind of thing anymore. yeah, and it isn't like you haven't called people out either, so I wouldn't point fingers.
Just reading that conversations makes Mr. Partisan seem more level-headed and simply frustrated, whereas you come across as antagonizing and ultimately petty. Either way, *shrug*.
@imasilentheart - I called people out for stealing pics and claiming them to be their own. One person who's identity was stolen has contacted Xanga staff about it. Also her dad is in law enforcement and he is looking into whether a crime was committed. It was a big deal to her. Furthermore, what I said was the truth. Paul spread lies to, what did he say, "fuck people over for sport" or something like that. Big difference. Most people can readily see it.
@ItsWhatEyeKnow - Yes and you ignore the fact that I said Paul has given up on this drama and such. I just love how you do that.
@imasilentheart - Please note that he wrote complete lies about me on a fake site less than 2 weeks ago. I'm not convinced he's "given it up" just yet. Moreover, what kind of person even does that in the first place? He's 33 for heaven's sake! There are no excuses. I think it revealed his true character.
@ItsWhatEyeKnow -He decided to stop the drama very recently. And I think the fact that he has stopped, shows that he is startingto show maturity. I am sorry he did that to you before, but I am glad to see he is changing.
Ricky, stay, there are many people that enjoy your writing- but don't involve yourself in drama. Don't respond, don't fight back, it's not worth it. Those would be the terms of your staying here. If you can't handle them, perhaps it might be best for you if you did leave, but I would be rather sad. You do write well, and I've very much enjoyed reading what you write when it's not drama-related.
-hugs-
If you are serious about leaving I don't think you should, because posts like this seem to get people involved and riled up, and God knows Xanga is a little shock as it's about to flatline... If you stay you should also write serious (as in not involving Xanga stuff like this) posts more often. I enjoy those a lot because you really are a good writer.
I think y0u guys just t00k it t00 far. And leaving will never be a s0luti0n and y0u y0urself kn0w that. Say FUCK IT and let the twat be.I didn't fall0w in all 0f this, and i certainly didn't read the entire bl0g y0u just p0sted. But let's be res0nable, internet tr0lls are everywhere and we can't d0 much ab0ut it. Y0u have y0ur thing t0 d0 here. Like f0r example telling us ladies h0w pretty we are, sharing y0ur 0wn pr0blems and feeling, being y0u. And the Ricky I kn0w d0es n0t run away.
@imasilentheart - I need more time (especially more than 2 weeks) to pass with consistent improved behavior before I'm willing to conclude someone is starting to show maturity. If he continues to behave like a decent person for 4 or 5 months straight, then I might start to believe he's changing.
@Xx_Secrets_For_J_xx - Broken o key? Haha
@hollowhopes - yes lma0, i spilled water 0n the lapt0p
So where are you going?
oh xanga drama
personally this guy is a doucher. don't look past it, just see at face value, for what it's worth. it's absolutely stupid that he spent like forever writing about you, acting like jesus fucking christ. "should we forgive ricky and give him a second chance?" stfu. best possible thing, don't mention it any longer, and don't leave, that's like giving up.
"if people try to bring you down that means you're already above them."
stay cool
- alyssa
I have to say I agree with the others, that when you aren't in all the drama posts you do have some good reading. Maybe just ignore the others and write for you.
I'm not going to tell you what to do or how to act or the like, but if you leave the site, that's like shutting a doorway on your self-expression. I don't think you should turn your back on that for anything. But that's just my opinion.
DearRicky: I think you're a beautiful person. I don't know much about what is going on since I only read posts and come onto Xanga when you tag me in one of your epic blogging moments---this is no different. I hope if you decide to keep up with some people after leaving Xanga for good (I wouldn't blame you) You will contact me via private message and let me know where I can follow your stories and yourself! Thanks for making me smile, laugh and feel generally great about myself.
--Katie
(AKA Silly_Padawan)
@imasilentheart - he does the same shit, posting links to his shit, repeatedly.. It's people like you that make people want to leave Xanga.
@ohletitbe - Why because i want Ricky to stop the drama act? Aww boohoo. Whatever.
@imasilentheart - lol.. I'm not defending either of them. I'm saying, if he was "done" he wouldn't do what he just did two minutes ago. You seriously need to calm down, you're probably more worked up about it than either of the two of them are, jesus, what are you Paul's freakin reff or something.
@ohletitbe - I need to calm down? I didn't come here trying to pick a fight, it looks like you did. Lol! I never cared about what Paul did, I never judged either. hm and " I'm saying, if he was "done" he wouldn't do what he just did two minutes ago." sadly that didn't come through in your first comment. But whatever. I am not here to fight with you. Ricky loves to make drama, and I don't care for it. Paul does too, but then he doesn't go around blatantly attacking people for no reason either. But again whatever. You have a good night.
@imasilentheart - Okay... you're like, replying to everyone's comment, so clearly you're defending someone, or hyped up about something, clearly caring about something that has to do with this! I'm not here to fight at all!!! <3 I personally do not care for drama either.
"This is what makes us different. I value integrity, and if one of my friends is wrong, I wouldn’t hesitate in rebuking them."
"I’m not going to call him names or attack his person. You can be the judges of his actions."
I don't want to sound mean or rude, considering I don't know you that well. I just know you post a lot of entries and a lot of people like you and some don't like you. I don't have any opinion of you, but I'm going to say this.
if you vauled integrity, I believe you should have settled this privately instead of posting something like this. You say you're not attacking his person, yet you are posting links to messages that were between the two of you and blogs that he wrote about you. I'm sorry, but that seems like you're attacking him as a person,
I wrote a blog that got some attention and there were some comments I didn't agree with. Instead of posting the comments and all the 'drama' going on, I responded in a private message and left it at that.
Don't you think you should do something like that?
Show your integrity and move on, leave the guy alone, and instead of posting all those links to private things, handle them in a private manner.
Hell, if you're angry at someone, write a post but have the integrity to leave their username out of it and any other identifying details.
It's...just...a....blog.
I think both of you need to drink a chai tea and calm the fuck down.
By the way, I love your posts, don't leave. I'm disappointed that you'd let others get you down after how far you've come.
@ohletitbe - Haha no, I wasn't replying to anyone. Itswhateyeknow responded to me first and I decided to carry it out, because she is fun to argue with(I don't take her too seriously). Then you replied to me and I responded for...well because your comment was too funny not to respond to, though it made me think you were trying to pick a fight.~Glad I was wrong. if neither of you had replied to my first comment then I would haven't been on here talking to anyone.
I'd really hate to see you leave. But do what you wish.
Ricky! Seriously, are you going to leave me here all alone in
I really hope this is another poo
Xangaland with nobody to stalk?
joke.
Please don't go. You have every right to be here and you've got tons of
other readers and people who love what you have to say (like me!). Your posts about us women are the highlight of my day.
Don't let some stupid Internet drama and a couple of people chase you
off. You're better than that. I know it and so do you.
Please stay. We want you to stay. But if you're really serious about
going, know that we all love you and will miss you terribly. I hope you change your mind.
@mudkiwi - Thank you.Seriously, thank you for the comment.
I think all of this is really really stupid. I genuinely love your posts, ricky, when they're not about dumb shit like this.
People love gossiping, lying, and all that.
Your writing proves that you are above that.
Wow, I didn't realize there was so much drama going on behind the scenes. I mean, I knew you had problems, but wow...just wow. Someone making up a bunch of new accounts simply to attack you and boost their own popularity? That's just low. I wonder why your attackers think Ann Coulter suddenly got quiet all at once...because she ran out of shit to say? No, it's because she shot off her fucking mouth too many times and people stopped listening! (But maybe people on here are too juvenile to realize that, and that's why people like your attackers continue to enjoy popularity even after embracing the negative route.)
I'm sorry to see you go, Ricky. I admit that I didn't read your blog unless you called my attention to it, but just the same...keep in touch and if you ever decide to start blogging again somewhere else, let me know.
Grow up & stay out of it! thats what I say!
was it really necessary to comment to Ricky if it happened sooooo "long" ago and Paul is over it? If he was over it he wouldn't need readers/friends or whoever to sit there and defend him.
what the f***!!!
What a jerk... I mean seriously? He would stoop so low to get people to visit his page? Wow. Height of idiocy. We come here to express our views and share them, not play dirty games. What a jerk, seriously. Please Rick, don't leave. Why should you?
Don't leave!
I know what it's like to be hated by people. I'm hated by lots. But don't let them make you turn away from Xanga. Whatever choice you make, I hope you can forward us your new blog site, wherever it may be.
Nona
@Xx_Secrets_For_J_xx - haha i feel your pain as i once broke my space bar. i.had.to.write.like.this
Fight or flight...you don't have to leave after all the fight that you've stood out. You deserve to stay just like anyone else on Xanga.
Seriously? Paul's a good guy. Can't you just move on and not stir up new drama by bringing up the old bashfests?
LOL, a troll calling out another troll for trolling in an attempt to troll him. Seriously, you're just fucking stupid.
Ricky do the right thing and leave this hell hole known as Xanga...It's been shit lately...Everyone attacking everyone...That is all the blogs are these days.
If not then it's useless stupid posts cluttering up Top Blogs and Featured Posts...Though then again that part has never changed...
Paul has and always will be an asshole...Along with a few others that "have his back."
Xanga is now filled with a group, a "Click", and if your not with them you are against them...
It has turned into High School all over again here.
Xanga also doesn't have the balls to deal with these people and remove their accounts/ban them as well as take other legal actions against what they are doing to others...
your egos do clash. i think you've both been ridiculous. even in that conversation, when both of you could have let it go, you guys retaliated against each other.
you really could just ignore him. it's not worth it.
Don't leave xanga!
first of all, this is the internet and some people lie about something. for example, i remember when i was on three forums, this guy made another account pretending to be a girl and befriends people. after like a few years, the so call girl made a topic saying that she was dying. after a few weeks, the truth came out about this so call girl who turns out to be a guy and members of the forum cuss him out. the guy tries to explain his reasons which didn't make much sense. in the end, no one really talks to him.
my question to you is why do you care so much as to what people say about you? it seems that way to me. my advice, just pretend that they don't exist.
i understand how you feel when it comes to bashing. i have gotten some pretty nasty comments from people (from blogging to email) and i am still around. do you really want to leave even though you have been bash and stuff?
not everyone will get along. will stay away from behavior stuff.
I'm confused.
Can you please not go?
I feel you should leave if you choose to Xanga is nothing but Drama , Cliques , & Popularity and obviously the staff loves it because it gives them the $$.
However yet they make it a law that people shouldn't harass each other but they don't abide by their own Code Of Conduct how hypocritical it is though right?? OH!! I forgot I bet they do take care of the bloggers that are in the "Cliques".
I mean yea people say oh IGNORE trolls like Paul_Partisan , Theacematt2 , VaneDave & whoever else I have heard in the past known to attack others in this hellish site and just continue blogging but where's the justice/morality??
Yes we should have the freedom of speech on our own xanga accounts and talk about whatever the hell we want I do agree.
But I don't care if this is the world wide web if anyone attacks another person outside the internet whether it's by a weapon, verbally , emotionally , or sexually being attacked it is still being attacked/ a crime and if you do such of those things in what people want to refer as the "real world" guess what happens??
The person/s gets caught and they either are on probation being watched like hawks or they are sent to prison for months,years or for life to pay the price for what they've done and sometimes those people aren''t at fault but some are and still get punished.
News flash people & Xanga Staff this isn't just the internet for some people this is a social blogging network which means you in some format socialize with people .
And maybe dearricky was hoping for that as well , you know maybe he wanted to write for himself but you know interact with others given the fact that he has mentioned he is in a wheelchair that maybe makes it not always easy for him to get out and go places like the rest of you.
So yea Xanga enjoy going against your laws it disgusts me to see what has happened here and to have to see people leave because you sit and do nothing because all you care about is your investments rather than taking care of what really needs to be worked on which is punishing those who have harassed others.
Now to the rest of the arrogant xangans that rather talk about others on here I hate to have to bring this to your attention but maybe those of you that do talk about others and attack each other need to watch the show "If You Really Know Me" maybe then those of you that like to stir up drama with dearricky and whoever else you attack can learn how to grow up this isn't high-school and even if this was learn that EVERYONE has feelings.
& By the way mentioning Paul_Partisan , Theacematt2 , VaneDave is no form of attacking it's just stating a fact that I've heard of those three being the ones to attack besides others so don't even try saying I'm attacking them I'm only going by what I have seen/read by others.
Also dearricky as much as I know you hate blogging here as of lately don't think this is your only place you have as a choice to blog there are plenty of other places you can blog don't stop doing what you love to do just because of this hell- hole.
i am so sorry; for all of us. I mean, I think we need to get a life if this is so important. I mean, to spend so much time to bash, or to respond. Critique of Pure Reason here (Kant, and we can't get it yet) . the need for verification in the physical world. In the physical world, many people suffer endlessly, wander wastelands without remembering what hope was. In the cyber world, we rant endlessly about ourselves. oh well. perhaps the economic crisis will scour us, like winter. cleaning dead things, making way for new buds.
I don't know paul, though am friended and have read. I like many of your posts, Ricky. Lets all try to live up to the challenge of being useful for others
merp
I never liked him.
You should write propaganda. You would be really, really good at it
@sindarkqueen - Agrees with everything you posted.
Listen ricky. We have been virtual friends for a minute and I believe that means I can speak from the heart. Dont fucking go man. I love you read your stuff. Your no good unless atleast 2 people hate you and I look, you got a gang of haters right so you must be great. Just keep writing. If not here somewhere better and send me a link to your new page or I'll totally be pissed, cyber ignore you for a minute, then come crawling back because I cant stay away. Dude!
... this is a joke, right?
If you had any interest in "integrity" you wouldn't have bothered to post about it. It didn't merit any further mention.
Don't misunderstand me; I don't have any particular feelings about you - positive or negative. I've been totally indifferent to this debacle from day one. But I won't pretend not to celebrate your departure (if it even ends up being true) because at the very least, it will signal the end of this ridiculous waste of text constantly creeping up into top blogs somehow.
@DJ_GiNSU - hahahaha. awesome.
@imasilentheart - Paul most certainly DOES go around attacking people for no reason. Please reference the first comment I left on this very post for an explanation.) Well no. I guess he does have a reason. His reason is to garner "comments". Weird compensation for a 33 year old man. You seem invested in defending terrible behavior. Odd.
I got an email saying I was tagged in this post...which is leaving me confused...
Anyway, this is the most insane xanga drama I have ever seen, someone has way too much time on their hands and / or is 14 years old. I dunno.
I'm sticking with Ricky, just because he (she?) was the first to ever invite me as a friend on xanga
I probably won't change your mind about leaving, but please stay?
If you really are leaving, then I wish you well
Well, hmm. Maybe, you should just stay on Xanga.
And ignore what other people write.
Just do your writing
IGNORE the other stuff.
Then you can still write and be content.
Skimmed.
You're not leaving. But, most importantly, Justin_Debin is the biggest troll. Maybe that's just a site created by another famous blogger. Either way, "Justin" is completely anonymous, and never takes a stand on any issue, he never says what it is that he believes in...regarding anything. That way no one can attack him, but he gets to attack people on all sides of every issue, especially atheists and Christians. At least I believe I've seen paul state an opinion from time to time. But Justin is a spineless pussy.
Umm hello!!! I said I had a crush on you, now you're leaving </3!
you know wat ricky.. dont shut down ur xanga...please continue on writting ..
without u on xanga... it wouldnt be fun!
Wow. Thanks for further proving that you tend to be the heart of all the drama here on Xanga and it makes me feel a lot better about the bullshit that transpired between us. I guess we know you'll never grow up and act like a man, this is far too immature for my liking. However, your drama posts will sit well with your pre-teen readers.
And quit giving Paul shit, homeboy is awesome. Don't accuse him of 'getting more popularity' because he's got enough, he has the readers you don't, the ones you've driven away and the ones who are fed up with your nonsense.
I await the day you leave Xanga, Ricky. Shit was awesome around here yesterday: calm, peaceful, loving - it felt like a community. And here you are throwing around Drama like a monkey throws shit. I've had it, kid.
Aren't you supposed to wait for Paul to retaliate to your last attack before you attack? Or even retaliate to someone's, like ItsWhatEyeKnow's last attack? I mean, she posted a blog just for the purpose of calling him ugly, and then he posted a blog saying he was quitting drama. He hadn't said or done anything involving anyone else (unless it was good) since then. I thought you were supposed to wait for him to attack you before you attacked him again.
OH I get it! You're STARTING the drama. Ok, I see now.
@hollowhopes - 0uch! bad m0ment. well 0nce my entire keyb0ard died s0 i had t0 use the screen keyb0ard and click the letters with my m0use. it t00k me f0rever t0 write
@I_Create - Evy, that is all Ricky does. He finds someone to start shit with - then has all his prepubescent teenieboppers walk around with night sticks taking everyone out at the knees. I mean, yeah, Paul may have started shit before, but he's been holding it down like a man for quite awhile now and I give him credit for that.
Maybe someday Ricky will 'man' up, but I doubt it.
@WordsandThoughts - If only people would follow Ricky's example and "value integrity". "If one of [their] friends is wrong, [they shouldn't] hesitate in rebuking them" instead of "mindlessly attack people without a good reason."
@I_Create - Well, Paul has more integrity than Ricky, that is for damn sure. *throws you a TEC 9* Here, use this to fend off crazy drama mongers. I keep one hidden under my laptop for when shit like this goes down. You never know whose gonna throw shit at you and for what reason.
Makes me think - I should only associate with our clan - we tend to be the coolest bad ass mother fuckers on this site anyways. *kisses*
I don't think you should leave over this. Leaving would just make him feel like he won. You don't want that. You should stay, and just ignore the haters.
Running doesn't solve anything, on the street or on Xanga.
@imasilentheart - You said "I think the fact that he has stopped, shows that he is starting to show maturity." LOL! He just wrote another long temper tantrum post on his Obama site. LOL! So much for his stopping or starting to show maturity. It's like I told you last night, a few days of different behavior is never enough to conclude someone has "changed."
Ricky, Aside from all the drama, you have had some really fun blogs. I cant say Ive been following enough or paying attention enough to harp on paul, he seems like a generally cool dude. It just seems like you two got off on crossroads and just kept walking in different directions. Sorry to hear all the drama finally caught up to make you quit..
I call bullshit.
You say you're here because of the love of writing & wanting to share it via blog. So do it then. Ignore this asshole & anytime he comments...DELETE IT. Do not reply to them. Do not reply to blogs or other stupid/nasty stuff out there. Ignore him, and he'll more than likely go away....no matter how low his comments go, just...ignore it...he's stupid and childish.
You should STAY, not for him obviously, not for anybody else, but for you. If you go, you just got caught up in someone else bringing you down and you admit defeat by this asshole, is that what you really want???????????????
You guys take this site too seriously.
Seriously now, what's the point?
I have this fantasy that Paul argues with his own sites back and forth to get people on Xanga stirred. Funny thing it seems to work for a lot of people.
He wants you to leave. Don't give him the satisfaction.
Wow, really Ricky? You both are worse than middle school girls!
Block him. And write for you, and for the people that still read this. That's what's important. Not Paul.
If you can't ignore him, you're just as obsessive as you claim he is.
everyone deals with assholes in their life. now deal with it.
Actually I thought you two were lovers just loving each other in a the usual dysfunctional, abusive way.
ugh, reading this post was like swallowing down a bottle of bitter ginseng.
no offense, dearricky. i think it's good that you're trying to make peace with yourself by calling out on injustices that you feel have been dealt to you; i just get a sense that you're the type of person who can't stand things that are unfair. but life is unfair; if we can't let go of the things that bother us, then we never get to live life to its fullest capacity. perhaps you should just take a break from xanga and then when you feel better, come back to share fun stories.
anyway, regardless of who is right or wrong, i think some of the things paulpartison said to you were uncalled for. the hate on xanga is strong.
sorry this happened to you. i do not know mr.partisan. r u sure this is'nt a xagian who signs her comments, "blessings"? other people have had such unusual and cruel treatment...hope u r okay. austin
This is what is wrong with society.
People come online and bully others just because they can.
Makes you wonder if they would bulldoze over someone online what kind of egotistical, abusive person they are in real life.
Just ignore the guy, block him and move on.Don't allow his ignorance to keep you from blogging.
It seems to me you are really well liked... so just stay and ignore the bullshit.
Tina
wow... those messages he sent you were ridiculous! seriously, trying to threaten someone over XANGA? what is this, seventh grade?
stupid drama is stupid.
i don't understand why people care so much about xanga popularity, anyway. shouldn't people write just because they enjoy writing? this drama reminds me of middle school.
Wow, stuff that is this boring didn't used to make Top Blogs all the time. There used to be more entertaining things to read. Please do leave if you are just gonna write about stuff like this.
STOP TAGGING ME.
@HerCarelessWhispers - completely agree
Hi Ricky,don't bend down because you're right. If you really do want to leave,I'll respect your decision.Wish you all the best and have a good life in the future.
Please don't go, Ricky. Your writings make me think and sometimes help me understand where other people come from so I am able to take on the world and my relationships better. No attention-seeking troll should get his way and push you off something you wanted to do! It's ridiculous... I can't stand people like him... His response to your post encouraging women made my stomach curl... I'd been held down and taken before and I refuse to accept beings who think it's right to do say be called human. That act isn't humane... it's a power play. People like Paul_Partisan are power players and aren't worth the time or energy in your day- and they most certainly don't deserve to have their way when it comes to the bringing down of a great blog.
Um, Get a life?? I don't subscribe or delete people because of their popularity or lack of it. I do it on my own accord because I like them as people and their posts interest me.
you two are starting to remind me of a sort of low brow Nidan and Ten duo.
Keep it up, it's funny!
Are you going to delete this one Ricky? Awww. hurt little loonsounds feelings?
I think this other person should just leave you alone, maybe he should focus on writing more informative things about current issues and not just bash someone personally. I like your blog and hope you remain.
I think you sir, need to get a life.
@insertuser_namehere - Amen.
If I were you..I'd just block Paul and Dave...that would solve all your problems..but take a break and come back. You're interesting to read for sure. And I do have a brain so it's no bother really.
@xWaltzAlyssax - I'd be interested to know your definition of "a good guy" and what he has done that makes you say he is one. I have only seen the side that brags about being a jerk to get popular, so I really don't have a balanced view.
So Jacques is Paul? I thought he spoke French? and he seemed kinda nice... (Jacques I mean).
You're supposed to be an adult. So is he. Why don't you all grow up already? At the very least just shut down your sites so the rest of the adults can carry on without being flooded by insipid "war" posts. This has all carried on long enough. Shut up. Grow up. End of.
@ItsWhatEyeKnow - Yes, and carrying on about someone's penis isn't immature? Grow up.
@jwfarns - And because someone is a jerk to people he/she doesn't like through a weblog, they must not be a good person, period. Makes sense. It isn't possible that talking to them in private, or actually getting to know them, that they're actually a good person. Cos' you know, there's never been Xangans like that (myself, Kestryl, Paul, LeftWristTwist, etc.).
@jwfarns - I have to second @RazielV, Paul has every right to stick up for himself. As of late, he's turned over a new leaf, he was done with drama. It's bullshit that people don't understand that if they would actually take the time to get to know him, he's a wonderful guy. (Wow, who would have thought?)
@RazielV - @xWaltzAlyssax - I was asking in all seriousness because the only thing I have seen is the side of him that is a jerk. I hope there is more to him than that because otherwise he would just be pathetic for real.
@jwfarns - There is a lot more to Paul than what is written on his blog. Really, there's a lot more to everyone on here than what we share...people just need to take the time to know others on a more personal level.
@xWaltzAlyssax - Except a huge part of why we blog under pseudonyms is so we can maintain our distance.....
@jwfarns - There is more to a lot of us than we see on here.
@xWaltzAlyssax - When someone is bragging about being a jerk, it doesn't exactly make me want to give them a chance though. If you deliberately build a reputation as a jerk, then it should surprise no one when people think you are one. And it seems that Paul has done that. So, if your experience has been different, that is good.
@jwfarns - Some people would rather it be that way, yes, and it's completely understandable. But you can't exactly make a well-rounded judgment on someone strictly based on their blog. Getting to know them outside of it is the only real solution to seeing all sides of a person.
@RazielV - And all too often we forget that and jump to conclusions which lead us to become verbally defensive and offensive. We forget how much the tone of voice means when we can't hear it.
@jwfarns - I'd remember that, then, when you write your next response to Alyssa.
@jwfarns - Maybe it's just me, but I don't judge someone based on the reputation they've built for themselves. I'd much rather get to know them myself, then come to a conclusion on whether or not their reputation is accurate. If more people would take that approach, I don't think there would be as many problems.
@RazielV - Alyssa would do well to remember it when she thinks someone is attacking her, and so would you.
@jwfarns - Neither of us assumed such a stance. Kindly don't make things up. It's unbecoming.
@xWaltzAlyssax - I tried that, but found that there is usually good reason for the reputation. It doesn't always mean that I will dislike a person, but it does affect the way I deal with them and how close I will let them get to me. When it was just me, it didn't matter so much, but when you have a family, you change the risks you will take to protect your family. On-line where no one uses their real name, it is not as big a risk, but I still pay attention to the reputation and how they earned it because it tells me something about the person. Obviously not the whole story, but something about them.
@jwfarns - No one uses their real name, huh? I think your thinking is rather antiquated, personally.
um... I'll be honest I didn't read all of this, but I'm pretty sure this is at least the 3rd time you said you were leaving xanga. So either do it or shut up. Just saying.
@schallerbrandon - Have you been paying attention to the pseudonyms on here? People don't use their real names -- except maybe you, and that's only a maybe...........
@RazielV - Ah, so the use of sarcasm wasn't meant to be derisive or defensive? My apologies..........................
@jwfarns - I use my real name in my weblogs. I even posted an essay I wrote for my English II class. My last username was my first initial and my last name. Saying "no one does ____" is a fallacy. One that should be avoided.
@jwfarns - Oh I was most certainly being derisive, since that's the purpose of sarcasm, but being "defensive" is not the only possible reason for it. Is a person only quantifiable by that option? Seeing as I had no personal stake in the matter, the idea of being on the defensive really makes little sense to me. It was merely to point out the lack of thought I saw go into your statement. And please don't assert this response is "defensive". It's merely explication.
@I_Create - You should get the facts straight and not try to rewrite history. Paul actually wrote a post about me out of the blue. I barely knew him. I had certainly never done anything towards him that could be considered anything but pleasant. He mistakenly thought I was someone else and when he was left with egg on his face he never apologized. What Paul boils down to is a 33 year old guy who hangs out with people around 20 years old because he doesn't interest people his own age, nor does he interest people that know him in person. Think about it.
@RazielV - You made assumptions about me. It is not possible to NOT make assumptions about people based on what we see and hear, which is why I initially responded to Alyssa with the questions I did -- I have assumptions about Paul based on what I have read, they are unflattering and she was defending him. I wonder why anyone would defend him, so I asked and the response was derision from her AND from you, so kindly take your own advice, since it is not bad advice, and remember to not assume that someone means what they say in the worst possible sense it could be taken.
@RazielV - No talking about what he did is stating facts already on the record. Many people have told me they remember the whole incident. Now what Paul did, sending pictures of your erect penis to people who DONT WANT IT is immature ... and gross.
@jwfarns - That's all I've seen as well. A guy who admits he used to fuck with people on this site to gain Xanga popularity. If he only put the energy into things that were good. What a loser.
@RazielV - "No one does....." can also be considered a hyperbole, which is a perfectly valid literary device.
@ItsWhatEyeKnow - The sad thing about xangans is that it worked....
Honestly. People trying to be famous by being a different person and being fake... completely up to them. If it works, it works. If not, it doesn't. Why should we, who have made mistakes and have lied before, persecute other people for doing the exact same thing? No lie is larger or smaller than the next. IT'S SO RETARDED. Maybe you're both in the wrong. To me, you just flaunted your own stupidity, while showing another human being's as well. SO! How about we just move on and play nice, shall we?
Sorry if this comes across a little snappy, DearRicky, but I just really wish people would get along. Sincerely.
@ItsWhatEyeKnow - I believe that incident happened quite a long time ago. Bringing it up now to bring Paul down, and then continually posting about all over Xanga--while giggling about it, mind you--IS in fact immature. Move on. The rest of us have. Adding to this, making personal attacks about his private life (ie "33 year old guy who hangs out with people around 20 years old because he doesn't interest people his own age, nor does he interest people that know him in person") is just as immature, and on the same level you're trying to hold Paul on. I repeat: Grow up.
@jwfarns - What assumption did I make precisely? You asserted the possibility that he was nothing more than a prick, but did not offer an alternative. That displays complete ignorance of the alternative. Understand that the word "ignorant" is not necessarily a bad thing, but the way in which you presented your point was quite rude, actually. The way in which you've been responding, particularly this response haven't exactly been non-aggressive. This thread of conversation is going nowhere, and I'm quite bored with the cyclical nature of it. If we can both agree that it's possible for someone to be more than they present on here, then what more needs to be said? Yes, Paul is actually a decent guy behind all the nonsense he's propagated on here. He's trying to move past his past behaviour, and it would be in the best interest of those on this site to try to do the same.
I know I have/am.
@jwfarns - But if you take a good look at his outspoken "supporters" it doesn't say much for him. Why is a 33 year old man hanging out on the internet all day interacting with particularly immature people around 20. It's odd and very telling.
@jwfarns - Hyperbole may be a legitimate literary device, but it's hardly anything to base one's facts on. Nor is it accepted when attempting to make an asserted "valid statement". If you want to be taken seriously, avoid hyperbole.
@ItsWhatEyeKnow - You can learn a lot about someone by seeing who supports them and who does not.
@ItsWhatEyeKnow - Point enforced.
@RazielV - I will talk about what a jerk he was to me on any post wherein it is relevant. He has never apologized.
@ItsWhatEyeKnow - He was a jerk to you. That's fine. He was to me as well. A long time ago. I forgave him, and moved on. He never apologised to me, and I couldn't care less if he ever does. I took the time to get to know him a little better and he's actually a pretty nice person. Is he a saint? No. I can't say anyone I know really is. But to consistently demonize him on stuff he's trying to move beyond is counterproductive.
Besides that, "Penisgate" didn't personally involve you. So your mentioning it really makes no sense.
@RazielV - You forgive him. That's your business. I do not choose to forgive someone who attacked me and did not apologize. That's my business.
@jwfarns - Indeed.
@RazielV - "No one" is also a commonly used figure of speech and "everyone" understands what is meant. If you want to be taken seriously, work on communicating instead of deriding. It usually makes people think better of you instead of thinking you are either an idiot or a jerk. Or not, which ever you prefer.
@ItsWhatEyeKnow - Regardless, my point still stands. Your choice to continue to behave this way doesn't change the fact it is very immature. Grow up.
@jwfarns - I derided you once and have been quite courteous since then. I really do not mind what you think of me. Regardless of your reasoning, your use of hyperbole is misguided, and added nothing to the discussion. Your continued use of it is the same. Your condescension is duly noted. It, too, adds nothing to the discussion, nor does it bear well on you. If having the last word is this important, enjoy it with your next response. I was hoping to leave this amicably, but you're set on making some passive-aggressive issue out of it. I want no part in it. Good night.
@ItsWhatEyeKnow - forgiveness is something else entirely. if someone does something hurtful to you, forgiveness doesn't mean letting them back in close enough to hurt you again. it does not mean you will never call them out for that kind of behavior again. it doesn't mean that they get a free pass. i think that it means letting go of all the feelings you have against them that eat you up from the inside out. after all, why should you have a stroke or a heart attack just because someone else is a jerk?
@RazielV - I'm comfortable mentioning what Paul did when it's appropriate and relevant. But thanks for your opinion.
@RazielV - "I'd remember that, then, when you write your next response to Alyssa." You are courteous and I'm aggressive? That is pretty much either condescension or a threat, neither of which is courteous in the least. Once you take that tone, one can only assume that you are only courteous until you stick the knife in - figuratively speaking only, of course. I don't back down when someone takes that tone with me, which is why I responded in kind. Thanks much for leaving me the last word. It is appreciated.
@the_rocking_of_socks - Yeah.
It's the real thing this time. I've done pee and poo already, and
there's only vomit that remains, but I already do that when I write on
romance, haha.
@Megan@revelife - I like you too, Meggers, and you do realize that we're still going to talk, right? (:
@summerdreams505Aa - How about I give you my e-mail address? (:
@raspberryjade -
Oh, I don't mind the constant bashing. It entertains me, actually.
However, when it comes to playing dirty, below the belt games like
Paul_Partisan likes to do with his fake accounts, I'm not into that. I
never thought anyone could stoop so low.
@ZombieMom_Speaks - No
one is running me off. I just value integrity and I don't need to
involve myself in places where the wrongs continue to prevail. I
belong somewhere else. (:
@ShimmerBodyCream - I'm going to ice cream fantasy land. Wanna join?
@splinter1591 - You're scaring me, haha.
@boricua_chic_2008 - I'm leaving for no one but myself, don't worry. (:
@vegaskandigirl -
I don't mind the drama. I just don't belong in a place where there's
no justice. The trolls have more support, and I'm not going to waste
my good writings here anymore.
@imasilentheart - I'll miss you, Johnny. <3
@ItsWhatEyeKnow - He's a disturbed individual all right, lol... cocktail wieners!
@glitzNsmilez -
It's not a contest for me. I don't really care about "winning", lol...
but I promise to keep writing. In fact, I'm just finishing up on my
book right now. You buying? (:
@GreekAsianPanda - Thanks. I really appreciate that, and I'm glad you enjoyed. (:
@Wait_by_Moonlight -
<3 I can handle the
But darling, we'll always have Niagara Falls.
drama all right, but there's a line that when crossed, I won't
tolerate. I'm sure you understand. We'll keep in touch, k?
@hollowhopes - I'm working on my book right now. I can't keep wasting my writing on blogs. (:
@Xx_Secrets_For_J_xx - I'm moving on, not running away. I have wheels anyway, haha.
@grannyinboxers - International, baby.
@xleezybee - Just moving on to better things. (:
@maulindy - Shutting the door? How about getting published?
@Silly_Padawan -
To tell you the truth Katie, I've always wanted to talk and get to know
you better. It'll be nice to have a friend in you. I'll write you
soon. (:
@mudkiwi - Don't worry. This won't stop me from writing. My upcoming book is much more important anyway.
@NymphaeHecati - You don't have to miss me.
But thank you for supporting me all this time. You're my most loyal stalker. <3
@witchywriter - We'll definitely keep in touch. Give me your e-mail in a private message and I'll tell you when my book comes out.
@AasthaKathy - That's the thing. I'm not going to waste my time anymore in a place where the wrongs prevail.
@ItsNona - In any case, my writing will be more justified in a book.
@nowbackfromthedead - You've summed up everything perfectly.
@Silver_Star_Crystal -
I don't mind the bashing, but when it comes to fake identities and
falsified evidence; low blows, I didn't come for this. And I don't
care, which is why I'm gone.
@PsychoAnne - I'm not leaving you. Promise.
@sindarkqueen - Unfortunately, there is no justice, and that's why I'm leaving. I'll have no part in anarchy.
@PinCushionQueen711 -
Hey listen. You don't have to worry. I'll always keep you in the
loop. I didn't even know you were such a loyal reader until a while
ago, but we'll keep in touch. I'd like to get to know you a little
better too. (:
@MasqueradeOfDreams - Message me if you want to keep in touch. (:
@Mastema71 - I'm still writing. (:
@XoPinkHeart - Lol, there, there.
@tyingtheknot09 - I'll have other places. (:
@wolvenchic - Well it's time to move on. (:
@Shl3333 - I'm leaving for myself. Is that okay, boss? =P
@vexations - That I have no doubt. It's pathetic, really.
@normality_dreamer - I'm dealing with it on my own terms. (:
@LoBornlytesThoughtPalace - I'll get to you soon enough.
@shesakillerqueeen - I was laughing all the way through, haha.
@caroliiineee - Lol, well I did quit high school. =P
@haloisbymyhornss -
Really, message me sometime and I'll give you
Tell you what. We'll keep in touch and I'll give you more headaches
than you can handle?
my e-mail.
@Diva_Jyoti - Huh?
@Hinase -
@Keeko1 - I've no doubt about it. The guy is nuts.
@RazielV - But I'm just a baby, lol.
@needtobreathe22 -
Right. If it feels good, do it. That kind of mentality is what leads
to anarchy, lol. When you use fake identities and lies to bring
someone down for the sake of popularity, it's wrong.
@DearRicky - Well I still say you don't have to go Ricky. I wish you well!
@DearRicky - Or hippism. haha.
@ItsWhatEyeKnow - I got curious to see how the conversation on this post progressed.
I remember Yosho from a while ago.
I didn't know this. Erm, that's slightly disturbing.
What the fuck.
You are a part of the community, do not let people run you off unless you are ready to go.
@ItsWhatEyeKnow - Oy.I remember that!
omg i cant stand it anymore. these arguments are SO boring. bye xanga. hello blogspot.
haha, that's so funny. Paul_Partisan is so serious. I hope he does more than go online, cuz that's just sad. some people have no sense of humor. he sounds like a spoiled piece of shit.
even though you are leaving, thank fuckiing god.....he has already won this bullshit war, because the last thing you want to do it talk about him....homosexuals much? ^^. youre fuckin gay....he's fuckin gay......let it go, grow the fuck up, and get on with yourselves. *kisses bitch*
<3sincerely,
__inv3rted_.
Don't leave, Ricky.
If you do, it would mean that you're provoked. Keep writing and don't let something like this stand in your way.
Dude. Don't give up what you love and are good at because of some jerks. Seriously. Rise above.
Lol! All of this is so stupid. It's like a couple of toddlers going back and forth. Normally, I'd say grow up, but I actually find this entertaining. You're just too stupid to move on, and instead you feed the drama. That's why I could never feel sorry for you, no matter how many pity posts you've put up (and there has been a freakin lot). The drama is 75% you, holding onto it like a pitbull with locked jaws. Sure, Paul is at fault too, but at least he makes it humorous. Entertaining. You just moan and complain and sob over it. If you actually ignored it, you might be able to do what you say you came here to do. You brought this on yourself. But I can't say I'm sad you did. At least now I won't have to see that stupid profile pic anymore.
@ElliottStrange - How about you just dont read his. I can be sure that there are so many blogs on xanga alone that if you didnt follow DearRicky and did follow someone you wanted to read it wouldnt matter what you thought. Oh wait, it doesnt. nevermind, i guess I was just wasting text. my bad.
@XoPinkHeart - Get him sister!!! Guilt the crap out of him, I want him to stay too!!!
Hey, Ricky!!
How are you??
I relate to what you're saying about Paul, and I think the man is mentally disturbed. Trust me, I run into thousands everyday in Toronto, and I just ignore them. Trying to retalliate over the internet, acting out, etc. etc. just makes it worse. I've been defending myself through my groups every year, and it doesn't make my situations better. I'm glad you got that support behind you, I wish I had it, instead of everyone supporting the persecuters because I'm 'not cool' and 'different' because I have autism.
Anyways, I'll give you a tip for your account. Instead of closing it, try to create a web project, delete all your messages, post it on your Xanga and change the password into (jwefweofiodsfdgf) for example. You'll get tons of hits at the start and you're using your account for something positive. I'm not telling you what to do, that's what I'd do. I did that from my old account: ScarletSniper and 'Clawbert's Clan' seems to be taking off.
Hope This Helps, And God Bless,
ScoDer
@Like_A_Tigah - LOL this.
@PinCushionQueen711 - Yup. Your bad.
@DearRicky - but there are people on the internet who do that no matter where you go. -pats- just ignore them. ^_^ no matter what those assholes say, they will make some jackass of an apology to others and in the end, people will accept it or not or whatever. so STAY but if you are ready to leave then i can't stop you (but can't hurt to try).
@DearRicky - Of course I have to miss you! Who else will serenade us with madly romantic love letters?! You're certainly welcome. I do hope you'll change your mind. Are you considering starting up another blog elsewhere, like WordPress or any of those sites?
Even though I haven't been as long-time subscriber of yours, I will miss you and your writings. Xanga won't be the same..
Don't leave the xanga family just because of one black sheep. We all just need to learn to coexist people!
I love your romantic stories, as do most of your female readers.
...you will be missed man!
Dont let this guy bring you down honey.
You should still write your blogs on here. Everyone very much enjoys reading them
Uhm posting about it give him more exposure which give that guy the more reason for his parasitic connection to you leave behind you must. (as Yoda would advice
paul partisan is a rabid homosexual. he uses other people's accounts to mass rec his own account and get top blogs.
I'll miss you.
Ok Ricky it is ok to leave us. I am just hoping you're doing it because you really want to and not because things are going badly for you personally.
Oh Paul and his fake sites. Yeah I have know about them for a very long time. I thought they were an open secret
You know what? this crap is really childish. This bashing back and and forth is really pointless. Reminds me of kindergarten kids out in the playground. GROW UP ALREADY!!!!!!
yay people still use xanga .!
WTF. That is bs. Damn this guy has no life. I am glad you are strong about this.
Hey! how come no one writes lies about me?
I feel so left out.
I'm not on anyone's side in these immature arguments over the internet. I said this to Paul: in reacting to each other, you both look like bickering two-year-olds. Go back to blogging about whatever you want and ignore trolls and stupid comments. I've done this for years and I haven't had a problem yet. -.-
The best way to deal with it is to not react. However, neither of you did that, and it's blown up in your faces. I hope I see you again on here.
I´ll miss your posts, they were enjoyable to read.
A pity that you´ll leave, but it´s your choice :,(
If you are going to leave I request one of your "sweet Ricky" blogs before you ride off into the sunset. Sort of something nice to remember you by?
DRama is great, but its an indication of taking things too seriously
How come I was tagged in this blog...?
Don't surrender
Funny thing is, I wanted to leave. This was just my opportunity to take Paul_Partisan down too;
What people didn't know back then was the fact that Xanga was just entertainment for me.
Fetusboobs!
Dear Mr. Ricky,
If you must leave, leave. You don't need this crap. Just live life with your loved ones and friends. The Internet is taking over too many people's lives. As if you know this Paul dude in person, he's a jerk for even bashing anyone online. But we can't do anything about people who live to hate and cause drama without realizing it. Gotta move on. Though you do have a point with this whole post.
It was a joy reading some of your blogs. If you decide to stay, I'm sure many of your readers would be happy. You could just ignore this drama and not pay any mind to it. Practice discipline. You're just giving them what they want, by responding to their hate and gossip.
Regardless, do what you gotta do! (:
Paul_Partisan: “I don’t care if my friends are right or wrong I will tear you apart by the jugular.”
Some people must not get out much.
-netnguy
Get away from the drama; it's not healthy.
@WhenHateIsTheOnlyOption - Well, this was more than 2 years ago.
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